I have been thinking of writing this post for a while. I did
not write it so far for a few reasons:
1. I wanted to be sure that it’s not just a co-incidence or a behavior
encountered by me repeatedly; demonstrated by a relatively small bunch of
people.
2. I did not want to write it in a way that offends certain
people.
3. I do not want to be judgmental.
4. To give myself some time to know if there are other people
around who feel the same way—and the answer is: Yes, of course, they do!
Now let me jot down a few of those experiences here:
Just another day; me and a friend of mine; inside an
elevator waiting to reach the ground floor; and then we were finally there; the
automatic door slid. Before we could step out of the lift, we noticed a bunch of
people, around 4 or 5, right at elevator’s exit, so impatient they were; that
they just rushed in without letting us get out of it. Maybe they were running
out of time and wanted to reach somewhere quickly. But wait a minute … would it
have been possible for the elevator to take them to their destination without
we getting out of it…food for thought for such people
Similar thing happens while trying to get down from a bus,
train and so on.
Another encounter at fast food counter at workplace. We wanted
to order something to eat. But there were so many people at the counter that it
was certainly not possible for us to even reach there. I could see three groups
of people waiting at the counter for the take away. The one out of the first group finally got the
burger and the juice he ordered, but he was still there chitchatting with other
five people in the group. Then the other person in the group got a juice after
a halt of around 10 minutes, till then these people spent their time at the
counter, certainly making it impossible for someone else to penetrate the mob
to reach the counter and order something. As soon as this second person grabbed
the juice, the bunch of 6 people simply walked away. Did they really need
company of four other people to spend 10 minutes at the counter?
Another group had around 3 people, a gal and two guys. It
seemed that the gal had ordered something, guys were just there to give her
company. Then she got the milkshake and was waiting for something else and busy
talking with other people in the group. Finally, she grabbed the sandwich she
ordered but she was so very lost in the conversation, it took her 2-3 odd
minutes to go away and while she was on the way; she spilled over the milkshake
on me. Above all she did not realize
that she needs to apologize for that and was smiling rather laughing for the great
job she did.
Another plot: This is an everyday scene at/near all tissue
roll holders near a washbasin. Even when people know that there are other people
out there waiting for their turn, some people just forget that they are at a
public place and there are other people in the queue. They would grab a tissue
paper and would stand there till the time they have finished gossiping with
someone else near an adjacent holder or would simply cherish using that great
piece of paper. Believe me, this behavior certainly irritates a lot of people
around you.
These are just few examples and there is a long list to go
on. The only reason I finally wrote this is it highlights the need to have
those basic social etiquettes which are not taught along with table manners in
school but it’s a must to showcase them. Do not annoy people with your
carelessness, it’s not that difficult to be a little more responsible about
what you do and how you behave..!!
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