May be I am Arrogant..!!

You may feel I am arrogant but if you think that... I can't help it, that's your thinking about me and I am literally not bothered about it. You may think just anything about me, like it matters to me. I am writing this post based on some of my personal experiences..

I always feel it's nice to help people and it really really really feels great when somebody appreciates you for all the good things you have done to them, in case they do :) . I personally tell everything I notice about someone, may it be good or bad, you may like it or you may not like it, in one or the other conversations with the person. It's just that I have things sorted out almost from the very first day. I don't want to create any kind of false impressions about me in front of anyone, false just does not mean bad here, neither more good than I can be to someone nor more worse than what I am. I just be what I would at least be to that person for the rest of my life until you force me to change for bad ;) . And you need not be that nice to me in return, it's just that don't try to act too smart and mean to me, because I could me much more worse than that to you, if I felt the need to..

I am too much into observing people and trying to find out why the person behaved in that particular way, given a particular situation, but that does not mean that I am GOD, I may also freak out at times, in fact most of the times, if you test my patience to the last possible extent. I like to cherish all the good, innocent people around who do not fake out anything, even if you are bad or have done something wrong, but you feel guilty about it, I would be the first one to help you out of the situation, but then don't expect me to nod my head and say you did what exactly you were supposed to. I will say right on your face even in front of 10 or more odd people if you try to act over smart or cover up your mistake without taking a learning out of it.

I am not always right, am wrong a lot many times, but I feel so guilty deep within me when I do something wrong once I realize my fault. At that moment, you may say just anything to me, and I will listen to it and will not utter even a word to give a justification because I already know that I am wrong..

That's how I am..rude, arrogant or whatever..

Few Lines..!!

Chalte chalte jaise waqt ye jaata hai guzar 

Kehna chahte hain kuch tumse,

Bas soch ye kat jaate hain pehar

Chale jaana chahte hain us mod se kahin door

Na phir jaane kyu raste ye jaate hain tehar

Just a Thought..!!

Waqt gujar jaata hai

Ret ki chaadar pe lamhe fisal jaate hain

Har manzar chod jaaye asar

Maddham maddham is qadar

Ke Lehron ki dhun mei manzilein dhundhla jaati hain

...to be continued

Life is not a triangle, so don’t always apply Pythagoras Theorem

You know what, sometimes, in fact most of the times to be frank, we very meticulously try and plan each and every moment of our lives, so that everything’s done in nothing else but a perfect way. Each step is a measured one.

If there are several ways to reach the destination, we always tend to take the route which either has been tried by a lot of other people or the one which is shorter and simpler in a lot many ways. Most of us lack the spirit to experiment, to stand out of the crowd and shout out aloud what you feel about something. Losing is not always a pain, sometimes it’s just the joy of trying out something different that out-wins even the greatest victory of all times. Just try it out once at least, there’s no harm in embracing the thrilling un-certainty, which might take you through a joyful roller coaster ride.

Go beyond boundaries, may be horizon is just a step away..!!

Believe me, sometimes it just feels amazingly good when we speak out the truth, shed down those tonnes of worries and tensions to someone passing by our lives. That someone may not always be your friend, a well-wisher or your family. It could be anyone, may be a random stranger sitting next to you in the train, or may be someone gulping down a cup of coffee at a table next to you in the coffee shop you are sitting in right now, or the florist whom you grab the flowers from every morning. So anyone here simply means, just anyone. Do not also hesitate to offer your shoulder too, being that special and chosen one to lit up someone else’s life. You might end up saving a ship which sailed through a turmoil of emotions for over a lifetime or may be even more and is now just a moment away before it bites the dust. 

Why do we all die to live, when we actually live to die..!!

It’s been a while since we, humans, last felt the air of content moving through the surface of our body, penetrating deep within our souls, healing the bruises and scars which were unattended for quite a long time now. All that we keep thinking of all the time is ‘Oh Man..!! I achieved this …What’s Next on the list to conquer..!!’.

Life is not a race to be won, an exam to be in the topper’s list, a brutal battle to fight for each and every day, Why can’t we keep things simple? Why don’t we just let this Life be nothing else but Life. What’s wrong in that name? I feel it sounds great this way.

For instance:

When a newly born baby is still toddling with the sunshine smile on his face, someone would not fail to make a remark with that grin on his face ‘Enjoy your childhood as much as you can, it’s just the beginning, you have lots to face and miles to go’.

When a freshman joins a company in which you are working right now, whether your workplace is good or not or the thought that person you just met with is friendly or not will be the second one on the list. The first thing which will pop up in your mind is either ‘Welcome to hell, come and screw yourself  as I do every day..!!’ or ‘ Does not he think too much of himself, an over-smart and overrated chap..!!’

In both the examples just narrated above, be it that sweet innocent child of Christ or the new colleague of yours in the later part

He might not understand what you just said to yourself or thought of while looking at him but don’t you think he is human too. We all keep blowing the trumpet of body language, comprising the 80% of all modes of human to human communication. Believe me if that is the case, you just gave someone, a reason to have an Err..!! feeling too.

Try to look at each morning with a rejuvenated spirit of love and an everlasting deep sense of human emotion, which would make life simple, smooth and easy. I will conclude it with the following lines, extremely close to my heart:

A ray of hope,

took me through

the zigzag row,

where a drop of dew,

smiles with the silvery luster

Just hope, one day

that sunshine serene

will lit up your face

and let it glow..!!

Think beyond the domain of losing and winning, even the sweetest of all wines would lose its taste, the prettiest flower will give up life one day, for each and everything is mortal with a manufacturing and expiry date of every joy, sorrow, emotion and not to forget, life as well.