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Saturday, December 23, 2017

Random Act of Kindness #3

“We mock that which we don't understand, and then we get to experience it ourselves.” 
― Sarah Gerdes, In a Moment

So true! I didn't really mock at anyone but I was quite amazed when I saw somebody throwing up during a 2 hour flight. The person was nervous even before the flight took off. I wondered what makes someone so nauseous(maybe motion sickness?), considering the fact that no airline food was involved. I didn't know if I could offer any comforting words to this (affected) neighbor.

Fast forward(almost 7 years): On a flight, this September, I happened to fall prey to a similar situation(all thanks to the horrible airline food). I ate a spoonful of vegetarian breakfast beginning of an 11 hours flight. A little after, I began throwing up. And as soon as it began, I saw a flashback of the aforementioned experience, I could even recollect the sufferer's face at that time. By that time, I had already thrown up 3/4 times. The airline crew was concerned, so was my neighbor on the flight. They tried to make me drink some water and aerated beverage a few times, but I couldn't even keep down a sip of water. For as far as I could remember, at least 3/4 other passengers came up to me and asked if I was doing OK but I couldn't speak at all.

The flight attendant let me occupy a seat in the crew's resting area and kept an eye on me the whole time. He gave me medicines but that didn't help, three extra blankets(I was cold even after four blankets). One or the other flight attendant came up to me to offer water or anything else every 15/20 minutes but I threw up every time I drank something. Eventually they stopped trying to make me have anything.

It was probably 3/4 hours and we still had a long way to go. The attendant asked me if I would be able to make it up to the destination which was alarming. I felt pretty weak by then but had not realized it was that bad. I almost passed out for a couple of hours(I think they believed I was asleep) but that was really helpful. Rest of the journey was pretty painful too, so I just tried to go back to sleep. Around 40 mins before the arrival, the attendant asked me if I would need wheelchair assistance at the airport. I agreed to take the offer but when we finally landed, I had no energy to spend any extra time than I absolutely had to(also felt feeblish, I couldn't come to terms with the fact that I was so weak as to need wheelchair assistance), at the airport. Next 45 minutes to hour was pretty exhausting, I was trembling almost the whole time but somehow made it. 





I am still pretty amazed and very thankful for the effort that (one particular) flight attendant(I wish I could ask his name, he was very kind) and rest of the crew made to make me feel as comfortable as they possibly could. They went above and beyond what anyone could expect from a crew.

“Kindness is not a business. True kindness expects nothing in return and should never act with conditions.” -  Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart

(I would add this one to chalking up to the experience as well.)

Thursday, November 9, 2017

Random Act of Kindness - 2

“Be a little kinder than you have to.” – E. Lockhart


A co-worker shared an anecdote based on his recent experience in San Francisco : a person(who seemed to be under the influence) fell down and injured himself really bad.  Several people went past him but nobody offered help or called 911. He walked up to him from the other side of the road to ask if he was ok(although it didn't seem so), called 911 and then a security guard(at a building nearby) offered to be there until help arrives.


“Be kind whenever possible.  It is always possible.” – Dalai Lama


Image credit - Pixabay


This reminded me of an incident from not too long ago. We stopped by a gas station while we were on a road trip. I opened the trunk to find something and a whole carton of things fell down. A kid, I don't know, maybe 4/5 years old, came rushing and asked if he could help me. It was kind and very unexpected. Before I could answer, he asked one more time and began picking things up without waiting for my reply. I didn't want him to help for there were glass pieces scattered all over the place. Then came his sister(may be 2/3 years old). She wanted to help as well. I asked him to take her away if he wanted to help. Luckily, her mom did. The little guy was insistent and continued helping. We had a short chat while we worked together.


“Of all virtues and dignities of the mind, goodness is the greatest.” – Francis Bacon


His kindness and persistence.. still make me smile..



Monday, June 12, 2017

No Regrets.!!

on the highway of deep blue stars
so be it plethora of silvery scars
tiny, twinkly, contour sparse
life goes on..and on..
through dusky, dusty bars


                                                                      
dribbling nickel & dime hails
leeway of huey jars
swallow the anchor?
 ne'er 
hold no punches
no heavy hearts
for life goes on..and on..
through dusky, dusty bars


*Image Credit - Pixabay